Afternoon tea is such a delight. In fact, tea at any time of day is lovely. My grandparents had one of those Teasmade gadgets that made them freshly brewed tea at 7.30 a.m. every morning. My grandfather added at least three cubes of sugar to his cup. It was so sweet and delicious. His was the first tea I tried. My Dad’s mum was a big tea drinker, too. She took hers in the afternoon with a pack of Karelia lights. When we were children, afternoon tea was a whole other meal at my Dad’s house. There were egg sandwiches with shortbread and coconut squares. Even in height-of-summer Greece we’d stop for afternoon tea, only afternoon was more like 6.30 p.m. There we’d have our tea with homemade sponge cake and Papadopoulou Supermarket’s finest packed biscuits. These days, a cup of tea is usually on the run. It’s rarely in fancy porcelain, and there are never petit fours. It’s s a shame, for many reasons, not least because my cupboards are crammed with beautiful cups. At my wedding shower, a splendid afternoon tea hosted by my mother-in-law at the King Eddie, every person invited brought me a teacup. So, there’s no excuse, really. It’s high time I brought back afternoon tea!
Life
back to basics
October 9, 2017
I came across the Austin-based clothing line, Esby today –– and my wish list is long. It all looks so easy and wearable. I’ll take a cotton Ikat dress, a pair of high waisted cream denim pants, and this effortless tomato red romper. The bathing suit styles, all simple and athletic, are super. And the menswear looks pretty swipeable, too.
zit
October 7, 2017
I have a fiery, red spot the size of mars on my cheek. I stuck an ice cube on it in the hopes I might freeze the bugger off. No luck. You’d think with all the fancy face potions on the market, a zit zapper would be easy to find. But most of them don’t work. My husband swears by Polysporin (it’s his Windex). Holler if you have a better idea.

Recess
October 5, 2017
I don’t remember recess as a kid, but I do remember it once I hit my teens. We were allowed to leave the school grounds and walk around the neighbourhood, which for us meant loitering in an alley two minutes away. We chain-smoked Silk Cuts, (which I’d stolen from my Mum) talked about boys we liked, and practiced our latin verb conjugations. By fifteen there was no latin –– just bitching and boy talk. Oh, and we’d graduated to Malboros. Reds. On rainy days, we sat in the basement of a Kentucky Fried Chicken smoking and eating chips. God knows what we smelt like when we came back to class. Thankfully, our school had no uniform, so people couldn’t call in complaints about our obnoxiously loud and lewd talk. I’ve got two girls now, who I hope will be swimming laps and reading at recess. But when they do end up loitering in back alleys, please make it be a short phase.
Here, Bernard Koffman captures children playing on a see-saw at recess. Illinois, 1946.
to the ball
October 5, 2017
Red and turquoise is a dynamite colour combination, in my view. Add shimmer, sequins and plenty of barely pink tulle, and Delpozo just whipped up Cinderella’s perfect frock. In fact, in my fairytales, Ariel, Aurora, Belle et al. are all dressed by Josep Font.
in season
October 3, 2017
Fall colours –– rust, sage green and ochre –– are beautiful. But how about bursting into Autumn with a neon green oversized sweater or a pair of crepe de chine pants in wildflower pink? This coat, the colour of a Sicilian lemon, is pure joy. And just look at the size of that dahlia. Dahlias come in high wattage colours, and so can we.

Nuts and bolts
October 2, 2017
I love to know the myths and legends behind iconic fashion items like a Birkin bag or a Rolex watch. This morning, I stumbled upon these little known facts about the Cartier Love Bracelet. “When the bracelet was first launched, Cartier gave pairs of them to some of the most famous couples of the 20th century including the Duke and Duchess of Windsor, Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton, Ali MacGraw and Steve McQueen, and Sophia Loren and Carlo Ponti.” And did you know that some hospitals keep Cartier screwdrivers on hand in case they need to remove the pieces from patients in an emergency? Classic. Of course, there’s always room to individualize the bangle with a stack of quirky arm candy. I kind of like this combination of tennis bracelets and high wattage gold leaf. I also like it as is, simple and chic.
party animals
September 29, 2017
I was invited to a party the other day with an animal theme. My friend Katherine Holland was showcasing her fabulous photos of exotic rescue animals, and I realized I had not a single animal print to wear. In a wardrobe with more variety of print than a Kenzo runway, it’s surprising that there’s nary a cheetah, leopard or snake in sight. Claudia Cardinale often wore a leopard coat, and it’s crossed my mind to do the same. I’d choose a vintage one, and this boxy tailoring is just my thing. Another idea is to buy leopard scarf, and turn it into a turban when I feel like walking on the wild side.
Creme de la cakes
September 28, 2017
When I think of a Baked Alaska, I picture it travelling on a polished brass dessert trolley through the heavily gilded halls of a fancy two-hundred-year-old American hotel. It was Charles Ranhofer, chef at the famous Delmonico’s restaurant in New York, who created the cake to celebrate the United States purchase of Alaska from the Russians in 1867. Well, this decadent pud is making a comeback, and while it’s not my top choice of cakes, she sure is pretty to look at.

team
September 26, 2017
Support is a wonderful thing –– just knowing that it’s out there is often enough to make you feel better. Outside of family and friends, I’m a big believer in creating a community of support for oneself. Some people’s community includes a life coach, a healer, a housekeeper, a feng shui master, a pilot and a personal chef, while others will settle for once-a-month with a trusty hairdresser who listens, makes them laugh and cuts great bangs. These people are outside the personal fold, but they often tune in as much (sometimes more) as your dearests do. I started going to a chiropractor a year ago. I walked into Rosanne’s practice in so much pain that my eyes stayed closed the whole time. All I remember from that day was that Dido’s Mary in India was playing on the radio. And that she stuck needles in my hands and reminded me that, “this too shall pass.” One of her favourite phrases. Rosanne is positive, broad minded, kind, generous and smart. She’s also very good at what she does. Twice monthly adjustments are now a staple. And while I still move a little more gingerly than I did pre-injury, there is lovely reassurance in knowing that the support is there should I slam my coccyx flying down a slide again.






