No matter how many rainbows we see, they never cease to be amazing. The urge to turn to whoever’s next to us, even the stranger on the bus, and share in the fleeting wonder of a sky awash with red and green, blue and orange, yellow and violet, is uncontrollable. Natural phenomenas kindle our sense of wonder and remind us of our humble place in the world. Volcanic eruptions, natural light shows, ice circles; very often, it’s the communality of the experience that is as affecting as the sight itself. Back in April, millions of people witnessed the ethereal spectacle of a total solar eclipse as it swept across North America. As I walked home from my studio that day, I felt a surreal kinship with all the many people gathering in clusters under the darkening sky. There’s nothing like a natural phenomena to bring a city to standstill and to turn our attention to the sky, to each other, and to ourselves. Even ones as everyday as sunsets feel like an invitation from the universe to pause and pay attention. It was in this spirit that I joined the worldwide group meditation yesterday in honour of filmmaker, David Lynch’s legacy and 79th birthday. “Let us come together, wherever we are, to honor his legacy by spreading peace and love across the world,” wrote his children in a tribute on social media. “Please take this time to meditate, reflect, and send positivity into the universe.” I suck at meditating. And I’ve not watched any Lynch films. But he seemed like a celestial guy. And God knows the world could use a huge embrace right now. And I love the feeling of connectivity that emerges through communal experience. So I rolled out my mat, settled into lotus pose and for a few minutes turned my face towards the sun. A globe-wide mediation, much like the two minutes of silence observed on Remembrance Day, can encourage emotions not so dissimilar to ones we feel when we see a rainbow or a sunset. Gratitude. Awe. Hope. Humility. Connectivity. Even if there’s no one sitting beside you, you know that someone, somewhere is sharing in this moment, too.
Life
tea time
January 13, 2025
One of the first things I purchased when I came to Canada was a glass Bodum teapot. I loved watching the water turn from translucent to a glimmering green. Like most Brits, I grew up drinking tea; always sugary and with lots of milk. At my Dad’s house we drank loose leaf Earl Grey poured through silver strainers into porcelain Wedgewood cups. At my Mum’s house, we dipped Digestives into mismatched mugs of boiling hot Tetley’s. My parents chose to live in very different worlds. Tea tasted wonderful in both. Once I settled in Toronto, I used to walk up to Summerhill to buy loose leaf Ceylon, Assam and Rooibos from the lovely Marisha at House of Tea. And when I started making friends I invited them over for a cuppa. My neighbour, Alison would often pop in with oat biscuits to dunk in the lemon ginger tea we both liked. There are few things more comforting then sharing a pot of tea with a friend. As my children got older and life got busier, teatime lost its sense of ritual. My Bodum teapot cracked and I stopped buying loose leaf teas. A few weeks ago, a friend popped in for an impromptu visit and all I had to offer her was a sad old chamomile tea bag. I didn’t even have decent honey to tart it up with. What kind of an Anglo-Greek has no tea and honey in the pantry? And then rather wonderfully a handmade, red clay teapot appeared under the tree from my husband this Christmas morning. With at least six or seven parts that all have to work together, the teapot poses all kinds of challenges for a potter. This one –– humble and refined –– is among the nicest I’ve ever seen. I’ve since stocked up on a variety of teas (from red rose to a fancy darjeeling) and teatime is starting to feel ceremeonious again. Of course, a pot of tea tastes best when shared so I hope you’ll visit soon. And bring biscuits.
vessel of joy
December 7, 2024
I’m drawn to ceramics that have a sense of humour, and Kelly Jessiman’s classic Hellenic shapes are brimming with it. It’s her handles –– wonky, lopsided, elongated –– that bring the whimsy. Her surface decoration has a painterly quality, as though each vessel is a canvas. It was a dear artist friend that first introduced me to Jessiman’s work. A friend who brings great humour to her own work. All the eccentricity, colour and contradiction that make a vessel (person) interesting are present in these vases. Jessiman fires her work in a shed in her garden, which is the dream.
oh, Christmas Tree
December 3, 2024
It wasn’t until a few years ago when a neighbour’s daughter watched me bring a giant conifer into the living room that it dawned on me what a strange tradition it is. “There’s a tree next to your couch,” said the little girl. Her family is Jewish and this was her first time decorating a Christmas tree. In recent years, I’ve suggested alternatives to my family –– amaryllis in clay pots, a plug-in olive tree, or how about some twinkly branches? –– all met with varying levels of conniption. The year I doused a three-foot Balsam Fir in lights will forever be the year Mama Stole Christmas. I get it. Had my Mum proposed juniper berry branches in slender glass vases as an alternative to the plump, jolly green confection I was used to, I would have probably lobbed a mince pie at the wall. Christmas overwhelms me. It overwhelms most of us. The lights, the music, the excess. The cloudburst of needles. The heightened expectations. It is a lot. Bringing a ten-foot tree into a skinny Victorian and stationing it next to your couch for a month, is a lot. But we do it because we know that our children love the tradition. And because we loved it when we were young. And because, despite the bickering and breaking of baubles and untangling of wires and NEEDLES EVERYWHERE –– not to mention the sheer bizarreness of it all –– a tree covered in lights and sparkle really is a sight to behold.
aquatic arts
October 17, 2024
One of my favourite pastimes is watching the swimmers from the bleachers at UofT’s Olympic sized pool. It’s like being at the theatre. Better yet, The Royal Ballet. There’s always that one swimmer that stands out, that moves with the grace of a swan. It’s the repetition that I find so mesmerizing. And the speed. And the effortlessness, as though water is her natural habitat. It’s when two swimmers move in tandem, like a choreographed dance that I am most amazed. Stroke on stroke, breath on breath; two perfectly synced flip turns. I leave feeling a small bit awestruck by what the human body can do.
eyes wide open
October 15, 2024
When you’re a walker you get to know your routes like they’re your friends. There’s the one with the massive pre-historic rocks. And the one with immaculate lawns and a mid-century modern bench. There’s the one where the wild flowers grow. The one where the old, aproned lady stares out from her window. And the one with ever changing graffiti. I know these routes, and I know them well. I pay attention to what they have to show me. A sinuous crack in the pavement; bikes chained to wrought iron; a choir of anemones in full bloom. It’s the walker’s eye. Trained to pay attention. William Eggleston has devoted his life’s work to shooting everyday street scenes and to finding beauty in the mundane. “Perfectly banal, perhaps. Perfectly boring, certainly,” wrote the New York Times in 1976 after Eggleston’s first big exhibition at the Museum of Modern Art. Today, he’s widely considered the grandfather of street photography. His quiet, ordinary Kansas streets, shot in the late 70s and 80s, are not unlike the ones we walk today. Concrete, brick, trees and wire.
weird world
October 1, 2024
Maryam Riazi’s sculptural vessels looks like weird little creatures, monsters even. Imagine planters with spikes like dead man’s fingers. Or a six legged bowl. I see beaks and tails and protruding bellies. I like how pops of colour — yellow, turquoise, dusty rose –– weave their way into an otherwise earthy palette. Riazi grew up in the city of Shiraz surrounded by lush, verdant gardens filled with orange trees and blossoming flowers. Nature is a constant source of inspiration. Her work is beautiful and weird and otherworldly.
after hours
September 30, 2024
James Maroon is the pool cleaner for the 9/11 Memorial. I only know this because documentary filmmaker Josh Charow’s chose to make a film about him. Charow’s beautiful portrait made me think of all the millions of night workers paving roads, mopping floors, wiping turnstiles, baking bread that we don’t know about. All the quiet, unsung heroes of the night, the ones we never see and rarely think about, the ones who take care of schools and museums and airports while the city sleeps. Sometimes, in the depths of Winter I wake up and listen to the scraping of snow in the laneway behind our house and I know that tomorrow the path will be clear. “It gets dark in there sometimes, and you can lose yourself in there,” says Maroon of the reflecting pools. “But it’s pretty beautiful to see the sun come over the wall. It’s something that most people don’t get a chance to see.”
seaworthy
September 12, 2024
Noriko Kuresumi’s ceramic sculptures remind me of breaking waves. Makes sense given the artist’s fascination with the ocean and sea life. I also see ruffled fabric and spilt milk. “Don’t cry over it,” my Mum used to say. Spilt Milk, that is. Move forward. I find Kuresemi’s work vital and exquisite. She works in porcelain –– translucent and strong –– and she’s never taken a sculpture class in her life. Wow.
hands
September 2, 2024
The first (and only) time I sat down at a potter’s wheel my fingernails were painted a vermillion red. “Those won’t last very long,” is all my teacher said as my hands scrambled to centre the lump of wet clay enlarging before me. I’ve since learned that a manicure is wasted on a potter’s hands. Too much water, too much mud. I cut my nails short, and once in a while, I slap on some Egyptian Magic. That’s my manicure. I like my hands. They’re weathered from the sun and from washing dishes and bathing babies and dipping sponges in clay water. They’re weathered from planting marigolds in the summer (to keep away the squirrels) and forgetting to wear gloves in the winter. I like these photographs of makers’ hands by Marilyn Lamoreux. Drafting, drawing, painting, weaving. There’s toughness and tenderness in each image.